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Ang hindi naman kapatol-patol, huwag patulan. Ang hindi kareact-react, huwag pansinin. Pero hindi ko kaya eh. Kailangan kong mag-react. -------------------- Sa taong nagsabi na hindi dapat bigyan ng enrollment privilege ang mga anak ng PGH faculty kasi sila naman ang nakaka-afford, sana makita mo naman ang bigger picture. Middle class kami. We don't live in an exclusive subdivision, we don't have late model cars, we don't have a driver or a maid. My father went out and stayed in a small island the size of Metro Manila in the middle of the Pacific Ocean for three years just so he can earn money. He didn't get to be at my high school graduation. My mother has been working at the PGH as a physician for more than 20 years. Through all of it, she has been able to send two of her kids to college at half the price (me and my brother), and is now currently seeing me through medical school and my younger sister through college at half the price. My mother's salary at PGH is a pittance. Oo, part-time siya, pero ang nakukuha nyang sahod ay disproportionate sa daming trabaho at intriga na hinaharap niya don. Mukha na nga siyang full-time, araw-araw na lang siya nandon. It's a damn thankless job. Hindi niya sinasabi pero alam kong matagal na niyang gustong mag-quit, hindi niya lang ginagawa para sa aming 2 na nasa UP Manila pa. Kung nag-concentrate na lang siya sa pagiging isang private physician, malamang siguro mansyon na ang bahay namin, nakatira kami sa Ayala Alabang, may bago kaming kotse every few years, kaming tatlo may sari-sariling kotse, at sumisisid na kami siguro lahat sa salapi. My mother is the main provider in our family, kahit gusto niyang maging stay-at-home mom. May trabaho din ang tatay ko, pero hindi yon sapat para mabuhay kaming lahat. She was the one who saw us all through in the instances my dad had no source of income. She didn't come from a rich family who could afford to send her to medical school. She didn't tell me this. My grandmother doesn't know how and I don't know how she did this either. On top of all the work she does, she manages to take care all of her kids, even in the little things that matter. Tinutulungan niya ang mga kababayan niyang humihingi ng tulong sa kanya. Hindi ko nga alam kung paano niya nagagawa lahat ng ginagawa niya. I am so DAMN PROUD of her. So don't you dare make jokes that a TFI won't matter much to me since may privilege naman ko, or that since I'm a daughter of a physician a TFI would just be like a drop in the ocean. Don't you dare tell me that my mother doesn't deserve to have her kids study at UP at a discounted price. If you say that to my face, in all likelihood, I'll kill you. Because I'm telling you, the country owes her that and so much more than that. Sana naman hindi maging makitid ang utak natin. |
| someone close February 12, 2005 01:54 PM PST ey, thanks albert at napag-usapan sa class yung issue na yun. mabuti na rin at narinig natin yung mga opinions ng mga classmates natin. actually, nagulat ako na almost 20% yung in favor sa tfi. sana eh ma-resolve na yung issue na yan soon, bago tayo magka-away-away. | ||
| albert February 12, 2005 11:44 AM PST Hi Abbey, I sympathize with your concern. Nagulat rin ako sa opinion na yun ng classmate natin. Aside from perhaps mababaw kasi ang analysis niya, maybe the reason why s/he said that is because she is exposed only to our classmates-PGH faculty children who are well-off. Sila kasi (na mangilan-ngilan nga naman lang) ay may mga flashy lifestyles, kaya kadalasan nag-gegeneralize ang iba na lahat ng anak ng faculty ay mayayaman. But I personally appreciate it that not all of you guys and gals have such posh living standards, na kasama rin namin kayo sa pagiging working middle class na kailangang magsumikap para mabuhay. Haaay. This is one divide that the student council seeks not to deepen. Don't worry/be angry, your concerns have been echoed in our GA yesterday where some councilors (who are also faculty children) voiced out similar views. We'll be releasing the council stand on Monday. Thanks for participating in the consultations. | ||
| someone close February 12, 2005 02:45 AM PST uy, calm down lang po. tulad ng sinabi mo sa taas, wag patulan ang hindi kapatol-patol. mapapagod ka lang po. opinyon lang naman nya yun, and in all likelihood, di nga nya nakikita ang bigger picture. syempre you deserve to study at a discounted price kasi your mom works at UP at a discounted salary din. kaya yun. calm down ka lang po, hindi worth ng anger mo ang patulan ang katulad ng mga ganun. :) | ||
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